Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Time to Reflect

The other day I was going through a box of old letters and pictures from high school.
Reflecting on lots of things and deciding what path I want my life to take next. I found this and thought I would share because I like it so much. Can't for the life of me remember where I got it from.

A woman should have ...

one old love she can imagine going back to ... and one who reminds her how far she has come.

 enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own even id she never wants to.

something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour.

a youth she's content to leave behind ... a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age.

a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra ... one friend who always makes her laugh ... and one who lets her cry.

a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family ... eight matching plates, wineglasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored.

a feeling of control over her destiny.

Every woman should know ...

how to fall in love without losing herself ... how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship.

when to try harder ... and when to walk away.

that she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents.

that her childhood may not have been perfect ... but it's over.

what she would and wouldn't do for love or more.

how to live alone ... even if she doesn't like it ... whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally.

where to go ... be it to her best friends kitchen table ... or a charming inn in the woods ... when her soul needs soothing.

what she can and can't accomplish in a day ... a month ... a year ...

So how did you do? I have 14 out of the 16 and I know 12 out the 19. Guess I need to work on knowing.

1 comment:

  1. Okay, copy and paste, because that's pretty much awesome! I think I know most of those, but helps to be reminded:-)